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Veteran Spotlight

Name: Jonathan R. Warmeling

Branch of service: The United States Marine Corps

Rank: at discharge, Corporal (E-4)

Length of time serving: 4 years, 4 months

What made you want to join our military: It wasn’t anything special. Vietnam was still bitter in everyone’s minds. Folks on both sides were still arguing over the politics of it, even my WWII and Korea relatives with my Vietnam cousin. There had been no 9-11, but while I was waiting to go in, Iran took the hostages.

In the beginning, I wanted to get focused, didn’t want to go to college, and thought the service would be good for me. I made my mind up as a junior in high school to join the Navy. I was locked into the Nuclear Propulsion Systems program once I turned 17 and convinced my parents to sign. But… all my friends were joining “The Corps.” and I found out the nuclear program was 2 years of intense school, then 2 years of OJT, then 2 years doing the job. I knew I was good, and I knew I was smart, but 90% failed out. They became boiler techs! I know the Navy needs BTs, but I didn’t want to be one!

All my buddies said I couldn’t hack it in the Corps. I trained with the Marine recruiters and the Marine Corps Poolees. So, I had to go to my congressman for some help, but eventually was released from my Navy contract (I was only 17 when I signed, so…) and joined the Corps. But my Dad wouldn’t sign so I had to wait until I turned 18 to sign, swear in and leave for the yellow footprints.

All our Dis told us when we got there, we going into Iran!

What is the best part of being in our military: Being part of something bigger than you. Sure, I proved I could be a Marine, but you learn your brothers on your left and right will get you through it, or die trying; and you learned, over time, you’d have their backs too. The “Brotherhood,” the camaraderie is something that stays with you forever.

Ever hear of folks taking the Aromy Birthday off? Ask a Soldier what the Army Birthday is, most won’t know… okay, almost all won’t know (June 14th).

Ask a Marine…'`Nuff said!

What did it mean to you to serve our country: Becoming a Marine was at the time the proudest day of my life, It still raks as one of the top three. That was probably the start of the effect on me of ‘serving our Country.’ And it grew greater and greater over time. Traveling around the world, visiting different countries, meeting different peoples - these travels made me first see how great our Nation is, how much better we ‘have it’ than most others, but second on how even if they hated us, they needed us; they relied out US; without the US, they’d be done. It made me realize our way was the best way, even if not at our best…if that makes sense.

At the time, me and my guys could conquer the World! We were young, tough and at our best = we were unbeatable. When the Barracks came down, I thought we’d destroy everyone who was involved…the clouds rolled into my side that day; things began to change, like a maturity…a reality set in. And later, when they threw Leon Klinghoffer off the hijacked Achille Laure, it made me get even madder at ‘them.’ If not us, if not Marines, who would save the world from these beasts?

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: Do it. Join. We need all workers. We need some kids to go to college. We need kids to go to trade schools. We need some kids to just get jobs. Anything you can or want to do in ‘the world’ today, you can do in the military - and get paid to do it; maybe earn money for additional education in college or for more trade school; but it will help you be better; it will help you do better in life; it will make you stronger.

Anything you want to do in life, you can do in the Corps, I mean military. And after 2, 3 or 4 years, you’ll be FAR BETTER PREPARED than your counterparts who have less honor, integrity, and pride in their abilities, and you will do better in life that they will - you can actually research that, it’s true. You will see reality, learn reality, and live reality. You will be a better person for it.

Someone will say ‘yeah, but I could get killed.’ Of the 1.4 million US Service Personnel who serve now, and looking over the last 15 years or so, about 20,000 have died “in service.” Of those, 2,740 died in action. You’re more likely to die from getting hit by a bus crossing the street. And if you pick combat arms, yes, you’re at the higher end. But if you’re a UAV pilot sitting in Arizona, you’re not going to die in combat; if you’re a cryptologist or linguistics expert in California, same.. ain’t going to die in combat; and if you’re a culinary expert cooling for the Commandant of the Marine Corps at 8th and I, you ain’t gonna die in combat. Learn a trade, or even learn a trade you don’t want to pursue, but you’ll learn, and you’ll earn your own pride in yourself.

If you could share one special moment of your time in service, what would it be: Has somebody been drinking??? ONE? I lost a Marine.. he lost his mind after we kicked the crap out of Recon Marines, then had to un, literally. For days. We ran and hid and ran for three days. We got shot at in an old cemetery, ran to the ocean, and climbed rock walls to get away, and finally made it ‘safety.’ This is a very long story, but I got meritoriously promoted to Corporal in part because of it.

…Being told about the attack in Beirut. We lost Combat Engineers already, but obviously more in the bombing, and it was of course devastating.

And then Grenada..things were not good.

What does patriotism mean to you: I hate this question, no offense. I ask people, “Why aren’t YOU Patriotic> What don’t YOU love your Country?”

I won’t say much about this, but there is a small village in Ohio that can now say it has somebody in every action America has been involved in, and that makes me proud. I can trace my roots to old England, Ireland, and Wales, but so can Manu Americans. But most importantly, I can trace my roots to just before the American Revolution.. family wounded by the British before or during OUR Revolution, the American Revolution. And in the Battle of New Orleans, weeks after the peace treaty was signed after the War of 1812, my family was fighting.

They fought for freedom: Most Americans won’t, today. God Bless the 1 1/2 to 2% that will, but sometimes I wonder why.. what would the ‘other 99%’ do without those of us who did, or will?

God Bless America!

Submitted by Kim Swartz, daughter of James Smith, Beirut Veteran.  Due to a recent illness, he is non-verbal at this time. We wish him better health and love.

Name: James Smith

Branch of service: Marine Corps then Army Reserves

Rank: Sergeant (Marine Corps) and Master Sergeant (Army)

Length of time serving: 20+ years combined

What made you want to join our military: My Dad joined the Marine Corps when he was just 17 years old. He was sent to Beirut, Lebanon shortly after. He wanted to serve his country. He is so proud to be a Marine!

What is the best part of being in our military: The best part is the sense of honor and purpose. My Dad made life long friends/brothers and a bond that can never be broken.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: It is a selfless sacrifice my Dad made to better our country.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: My Dad alway encouraged youth to join the military. It didn’t have to be the Marine Corps, but expect a hard time if it wasn’t ;) He knew the military taught great life skills and alway pushed for youth to pursue a career in the military.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: I cannot ask my Dad this but I would have to say his brother and their time in Beirut. It wasn’t all bad. They had a lot of fun and crazy nights.

What does patriotism mean to you: This one is tough since I cannot ask my Dad but I think Patriotism, to him, means a commitment to our country, whatever it takes. My Dad gave his life to the Marine Corps. He has always been so proud of his service as he should be. I know he would do it all again tomorrow, even if the outcome was the same. I recently saw a quote that said, “And the truth is that all veterans pay with their lives. Some pay all at once, while others pay over a lifetime” This is the best saying I’ve ever read.

Name: Don (Duffy) Vaile

Branch of service: U.S.M.C.

Ranks: SGT (In the Root, Cpl)

Length of time serving: 10+ years

What made you want to join our military: I was having a lot of trouble trying to get my life on course so I decided I need a little guidance and discipline. The day I decided to join, the only recruiter that was there was a Marine! Five days later I was in Paris Island doing just that.

What is the best part of bing in our military: The things that you did as a Marine around the world that brought help to the suffering and when business needed to be done that I was at the tip of the spear!

What did it mean to you to serve our country: It meant a lifetime of memories of the places I’ve been and the friendships acquired that are still with me today.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: That if you decide to take the lifetime oath of becoming a Marine or any branch of the service, that you take it seriously and become the best at what you do by acquiring all schooling, job information and if you decide to make a career, be the one who they come to for leadership and knowledge of getting the job done!

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time is the service, what would it be: Exploring the world with my friends and getting to wear the most and in my eyes the best uniform on the planet, a U.S. Marine Corps Blues uniform! Everyone knows who you are and what you're about just by seeing that uniform.

What does patriotism mean to you: Every time I stand with my hand over my heart to sing the national anthem, most look at our standard and refelect nothing. Me on the other hand, look at the folds in the flag as it blows in the wind with the breath of our brothers and sisters whom have sacrificed everything for our freedom of today! My sons breath is one of those who’ve sacrificed it all for us and making the flag blow and stand strong for others to look up and know there’s hope from the red, white and blue.

Duffy served in 81'smm as a F.O. attached to A company.

 in Beirut, Lebanon.

His son, Chris Vaile, a USMC Sgt., was killed in action in Afghanistan by an IED.

There is a book available on Amazon titled "Postcards Through Hell". The true story of the most remarkable US mail delivery in Afghanistan, The Pony Express.

This book mentions the Beirut Marines because of the connection of Duffy and his son, Chris. This book tells of the dangerous missions that Chris and his men took to get the mail to the troops in Afghanistan.

Thank you USMC Beirut Veteran, Duffy Vaile for your service and, most especially,  your sacrifice in the loss of your beloved son, USMC Sgt. Chris Vaile, KIA September 6, 2010.

Name: David F. Seelye

Branch of service: United States Marine Corps

Rank: Private to Sergeant

Length of time serving: 1980-1987

What made you want to join our military: I was raised in a family where both my grandfathers, uncles and my father had served in the military, as well as my oldest brother. I decided when I was a freshman in high school that I was going to join the Marine Corps, I signed up on September 12th 1979, on the delayed entry program. I arrived at MCRD Paris Island Recruit Depot on September 2nd 1980.

What is the best part of being in our military: The best part was boot camp, learning to be in a platoon of men who grew together and learned to move as one unit in every aspect of our training that we would carry on into our careers. We were being taught and trained to become Marines by Vietnam combat Veterans who ensured we were trained to survive.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: After serving 2 tours in Beirut, Lebanon I found that serving my country meant that there will be sacrifices, hardships, loss of life, as well as the change in the minds of the protected to turn against you. It also meant that you would forever be seen in a different light by those who live in your hometown as well as your high school friends.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: Advice for today’s youth, first of all today’s youth must learn and accept that they are the next generation that will be responsible for protecting this country and our constitution, as well as our way of live, most of all Our FREEDOM.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: What I would share about my time in service would be about my time serving in Beirut as part of the Multi-National Peacekeeping Mission. I was with the 32nd Marine Amphibious Unit (MAU), we were the first Marines to go ashore in Beirut. I would tell them how the people of Beirut were very happy to see us evacuate the PLO in August/September 1982, as well as reopen the Beirut International Airport in September 1982, where we suffered our first KIA and WIA’s. The Lebanese people were excited to have the Marines, French, British and Italians there stopping the fighting. I would also tell about the sadness of the massacre of two refugee camps and the bombing of the President of Lebanon. I would also tell of the major difference of how things felt when I returned to Beirut in 1983, I would explain how you could feel the tension in the atmosphere, things were more tense, there was increasing anger towards all components of the Multi-National Forces. Which came to a head on April 18th 1983 when a car bomb was driven into the US Embassy killing 17 Americans, one of which was a young Marine Embassy Guard. This was the original start to the Global War on Terror, a story that MUST be told.

What does patriotism mean to you: Patriotism to me means that you have and undying love for our country, the willingness to protect our Flag at all costs even if it means giving your life to protect the Flag. It also means the freedom and the ability to keep our freedom is only one generation away. We live in the greatest and freest country in the world. We are a Republic based on a constitution and bill of rights, which also must be protected. And protecting our freedom, government, constitution, rights, and our flag is what TRUE PATRIOTISM is all about. “To support and defend our constitution, against all enemies, both foreign and domestic” that is PATRIOTISM.

Name: JB Ashcraft

Branch of service: USMC

Rank: Sgt.

Length of time serving: 4 years

What made you want to join our military: In 1980 the job market for ornery young farm boys was not the best, college wasn’t in my immediate future and I did not want to be a farmer. The Iran hostage crisis was in full swing and I thought I should do my part in protecting our country, so the Marine Corps was the only choice to get out of this 300-person town.

What is the best part of being in our military: Being fresh off the farm boot camp was a blast for me, maybe not others in my platoon, but for me it was fun and challenging. My schooling was also good for me and started my career after leaving the Corps., and of course the travel, seeing things I would have never seen in Missouri…

What did it mean to you to serve our country: At the time Patriotism was on the rise with the Iran hostages and doing my part, no matter how insignificat it felt good. The hostages were released right after I graduated boot camp so I was late for that show but little did we know our war on terrorism was only starting. So I am proud to be a part of our efforts in Beirut even though (in my opinion) we did not achieve the desired outcome.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: If you are unsure of your life’s path, join. Choose a career and build on it from there! Also, unless you are a really good swimmer (I mean really good) go to the non-swimming side in boot camp, I chose poorly.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: Other than nearly drowning in boot camp I have a lot of good, life forming memories from the Marines.

Receiving a personal commendation from Reginald Bartholomew, US Ambassador Lebanon was an unexpected pleasure for sure.

My most cherished memory didn’t happen while I was on active duty, it happened this year. A simple statement made by a baby during our time in Beirut, now grown and very accomplished. Her name is Mireille Rebeiz, Ph.D, she was addressing a group of Beirut Veterans and families in Florida. She stated “we made a difference” how profound and rewarding..

What does patriotism mean to you: Pride, patriotism simply means being proud of your country and supporting it. There are many different ways you can support your country, from voting, participating in your community, to supporting our military and law enforcement communities as well as defending the constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic… hmm I’ve heard that last part before… Still holds true!

Name: Pete (McClure) Sloper

Branch of Service: U.S.M.C.

Rank: Corporal (E-4)

Length of time serving: 4 years 1 month

What made you want to join our military: At the time I needed a place to live and a job and I thought of no better way to get both of them.

What is the best part of being in our military: Meeting people from all walks of life and from all over the Country while being able to travel even though Uncle Sam is the tour guide and being able to learn a job skill and still getting paid for it.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: Knowing that the time spent serving made a difference for someone even if it was only a small one.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: If you need or want direction joining the military will give you that and will give you time to figure out what you want to do with your life and maybe the training for it. For the best outcome you have to be willing to give your best.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: That is hard to say as all I can remember today are special. Reflecting back on my military service the time I spent in Beirut was the most important to me. I would like to say what little I was able to contribute help the greater cause. Due to that time I try to give 100% for every task that I take on or is given to me.

What does patriotism mean to you: Giving back to your Country, State or Town for the freedom it has provided for you and not expecting anything in return.

Name: Dennis Taylor

Branch of Service: United States Marine Corps

Rank: Chief Warrant Officer-3

Length of time serving: 21 years

What made you want to join our military: I knew I needed direction in my life, and I wanted to make a difference. I was tired of being told I needed to go to school, and that college was my best path. I wanted something different and to be challenged both physically and mentally. So I decided to join the best fighting force in the world. Seven of us from our High School enlisted under the buddy system, and left for boot camp together. We remain very close friends today.

What is the best part of being in our military: The brotherhood associated with serving our great country. You make so many friends, and no matter the separation in years from the last time you were together, you can pick up like it was only yesterday. They become part of your extended family. Some closer than family.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: Far too few of the general population of the United States know the honor of serving our Country. Most don’t and will never know the sacrifices made by so few. The price of freedom often gets paid in blood, and as they say Freedom isn’t free.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: It can be a great adventure, but it is not for everyone. The United States Marine Corps is the hardest of boot camps, I never push anyone to the Corps. They have to want to be a Marine. I encourage them to look at all the services and to select the one that best suits them and their goals.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: There are so many! From Direction Finding Team Chief on the DMZ, Korea, to Watch Officer at Naval Security Group, Misawa, Japan, to Operations Chief for Detachments in Beirut, Lebanon, and Tiger Island, Honduras, were all awesome adventures. But as a new Warrant Officer, being the first Platoon Commander for The Radio Reconnaissance Platoon at 1st Radio Battalion, was without a doubt the most rewarding.

What does patriotism mean to you: The love and devotion to our country. American is an exceptional country, no matter what some may say. It’s a shame American Patriotism today is not at the level it should be, in my humble opinion.

Name: Jim Brogan

Branch of Service: Armor/ Cav U.S. Army

Rank: 0-5/LTC

What made you want to join our military: Wanted to fly Apache helicopters, but mainly because I did 4 yrs. of high school JRTC which helped me win a 4 year National ROTC full scholarship. The scholarship cost was serving 6 yrs. in the Army upon graduation from college.

What is the best part of being in our military: The camaraderie. Traveling the world is not bad either!

What did it mean to you to serve our country: Felt honored to be part of an organization that defends and protects the American way of life.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: Do it. That the opportunity to serve your country plus the life experiences, educational and healthcare benefits make military service a great career that is hard to beat.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: Being made an honorary Marine. From 1998-2000 when I served at Fr. Knox, Ky Armor Center as the Chief of Cavalry, my team was asked to train 3d Light Armored Recon Marines at 29 Palms, California- three times- earning me and my team 2 USMC commendations and my very own Honor, Courage, Commitment card. In 2021, at a pitstop during a roadtrip to Florida, I ran into a group of Marines and told them the honorary USMC story and showed them my crumbling, decrepit, membership card. A few minutes later one of the Marines walked up, handed me a new Honor, Courage, Commitment card and said, “Looked like you needed a new one. HOO-Ah!

What does patriotism mean to you: To me, Patriotism means love and devotion for one’s country and way of life, coupled with the willingness to sacrifice in order to defend and protect that country and way of life.

Name: Curt Messer

Branch of Service: United States Army

Rank: Staff SGt. E-6

Length of time serving: Twenty-eight years

What made you want to join our military: I was drafted on April 6th, 1953, with 220 other twenty years old from the Detroit, Michigan military district.

What is the best part of being in our military: Defending my country. Things were breaking out in Korea and I was the military police on the security side. And after graduation, they heard we were coming! I spent time with the military police at Fort Knox guarding the gold.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: It was an honor for me to serve our country. In 1941, the Japanese killed my uncle when they invaded the Philippines and the day he left I was ten years old. He picked me up and gave me a kiss on both cheeks and said, “Be a good soldier for me because I am not coming back.” And my father got the telegram in 1940 that he had been killed. He was my hero: Martin J. Messer, Master Sgt.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: Because I’m an observer, close your eyes, open and observe. Concentrate on being right. Take charge, take care of yourself and others too. You only have one time to pass through this life.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: Being in France at the time of their annual Festival of Joan of Arc and I was taking pictures with a tripod and the police walked up to me and said, “Hey American take a picture of the lady on the street!” She was in armor on a horse and a beautiful young maiden. I was the the first American to take a picture of the young maiden depicting Joan of Arc at their annual French Festival.

What does patriotism mean to you: It could mean a whole lot. Honoring the basic principle of our country (with tears in his eyes) and know that there is a cost involved in being free. Sometimes when I see all these white little crosses, I salute and say, “Thanks guys! We would not be here without you.”

Name: Payson Bryan Ayres III

Branch of Service: USMC

Rank: Corporal

Length of time serving: 4 years Active Duty

What made you want to join our military: My Grandfather was a Naval Surgeon and on the Yorktown at Midway. I wanted to join the service because he inspired me. I fell in love with the Marine Corps at a young age and knew thats what I wanted to do.

What is the best part of being in our military: The sense of belonging to something, being a part of a brotherhood. Knowing that I accomplished something only 1% of our nations population ever do. I was honored to serve on active duty.

What did it mean to you to serve our country: Serving was my greatest honor. I was and still willing to lay down my life for America if ever necessary.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today: Pick an MOS (Military Occupational Specialty) that will provide training for a future career. Join the branch that fits your skills, aptitudes and mind set. Do not be influenced by Recruiters.

If you could share one special moment, memory of your time in service, what would it be: I distinctly remember being 18 years old on top of the Ambassador’s Residence in Beirut Lebanon on a hot day in Aug. 1983. I remember looking at the American flag on the roof and being overcome with a sense of gratitude and belonging to something much larger than I. I felt a rush of patriotism and pride that filled my heart. I hope I never forget that day.

What does patriotism mean to you: It comes in many forms. To me it is a belief that the founders of this great nation have entrusted us to safe guard what they built for us. It means that some may be called to sacrifice, and some may be called to sacrifice all. It means that we live in the greatest Country ever conceived and that our rights and freedoms are God given and they must be protected.

Name: R. Bancroft McKittrick

Branch of Service: USMC

Rank: Colonel

Length of time service: 26 years

What made you want to join our military? Drafted out of college

What is the best part of being in our military? Mission Focused. Camaraderie. Outstanding Marines to work and fight with!

What did it mean to you to serve our country? Selfless service to a great county. Freedom, as the saying goes, is not free.

What advice would you give our youth thinking about joining our military today? It is an opportunity to serve your country and to learn lifelong skills that are foundational to success in the military and civilian life that follows.

If you could share one special moment memory of your time in service, what would it be? Becoming a Company Commander in Vietnam at age 21 and being responsible for 180 Marines and Sailors. It was hard to comprehend but continued combat operations did not allow me much time to dwell on it. Staff NCO’s and NCO’s mentored me.

What does patriotism mean to you? Devoted to my country, willing to fight for it and never losing faith in the ideals that led to the creation of our country.

BRANCH OF SERVICE: U.S. Army

RANK: First Sergeant

LENGTH OF TIME SERVED: Twenty-two years

I wanted to join the military when I became a part of the ROTC that my uncle, who retired from the Army, managed at my local high school. I was one of his “kids”. He told me I couldn’t do it ~ reverse psychology. So basically, I did it and I loved being a Soldier.

The best part of the military for me was the camaraderie and the brotherhood / sisterhood.

The advice I would give to our youth thinking about joining our military today would be to share with them how rewarding it is to serve your county. But it does take discipline, loyalty, integrity, and honor.

One special moment for me would be… so many, but when I was an E4 Promotable stationed at Fort Lewis, Washington State, I did a water jump over American lake, I landed in a moving rubber boat when I was supposed to land in the water.

Patriotism means to me, simply stated: ‘MERICA’

THANK YOU FOR YOU SERVICE

RETIRED FIRST SERGEANT ALEXANDER ANDERSON.

Eric’s last United Nations General Assembly detail before retiring from the NYPD Emergency Unit in 2017.

Eric Bembenek

BRANCH OF SERVICE: U.S. Marine Corps

RANK: Lance Corporal

LENGTH OF TIME SERVED: July 1981 - July 1985. 4 years

I joined the Marines to give back to a country that had given so much to my family. We came to the United States in 1966 from Poland which was being run by an oppressive communist government.

The best part of the military was the people that I met there. Lifelong friends forged out of the best and worst of times.

Serving made me feel like a true American, gave me a seat at the table, a sense of belonging.

If you’re planning to join, speak to former and active duty service members. Make a plan for after you get out while you’re in. Whether you make the military a career or do 4 years and get out, it’ll give you and advantage in life that no other experience will.

One special moment for me in the service was seeing the tears in my parents eyes on graduation day from boot camp.

Patriotism to me is loving this country by getting involved in local and national politics (voting), caring for your community and neighbors, being a force of good even when you don’t feel like it.

Port of Beirut 1982

2/8 Marines 32d MAU arrive in Beirut, Lebanon 25 August, 1982. (Eric and Lt Urbine in front)

L to R - Eric Bembenek, Fox 2/8 - Richard Diaz, Fox 2/8 - Sean Reilly, Weapons 2/8 - Marcus Romeo, Fox 2/8 - Post Commander (name unknown)

Wounded Veteran visiting NYPD Special Operations Division with his family. I had the privilege to spend time with them.